F. Teachers' experiences and views about coming out in the classroom:
Should teachers come out in class? Sometimes or Yes:
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Personal decision each individual needs to make
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Staying in the closet is very stressful but climate needs to be safe.
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A risk to your job or better job assignments
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It is important for us to come out to our students.
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important to come out to offer support to out and not out lbg students
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Gay and lesbian and straight students need positive role models.
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Good exposure for students of lesbian/gay/bisexuals as regular people.
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Students asked teacher if Lesbian and gay relationships are a valid option
so teacher came out.
Should teachers come out in class? No:
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No teacher ought to discuss their personal lives in the classroom
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Would never teach lesson as a gay man because it is special pleading.
Instead say "I have a gay/lesbian friend."
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I wouldn't come out. Students in Hong Kong are appalled at the notion of a
homosexual. Strong Christian anti-sexual morality.
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I come out as straight because I sometimes mention my partner. I wonder if
I'd just say I'm not married and leave it at that if I were a lesbian.
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My husband finds it embarrassing for me to discuss my bisexuality and
worry about talking to much about my son and invading his privacy - I
cannot see a benefit of discussing this in class.
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Why come out? Other teachers don't say if they are married or have
children or a boyfriend or girlfriend. My personal life is privilege of
close friends.
Reactions to teachers coming out in class:
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Generally surprising but generally accepted.
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Students felt closer to teacher
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The teacher felt better about students after coming out.
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After coming out, could invite students to my home to an end of semester
dinner